Too often we hold ourselves up against others: they are more ____ ; they have more ____. Etc.
To state these as realities and accept them as they are and then move on to work on ourselves for ourselves would be totally fine; what often ends up happening is that we take these realities and compare, beat ourselves up and let it peel away at our own self-worth.
It is important to notice what others are doing, engage with others in order to notice more and learn from how different we all are and how we do things. But from seeing, hearing and then learning, should be the path to a better self ALONG SIDE others.
We watch and learn, but we are only competing against ourselves.
If you are not sure if you needed to read this, let me ask you this: Are you happy at this moment? Like, TRULY happy? Content with all that you have, all that you can do and all that you are doing?
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Too often we hold ourselves ...
Too often we hold ourselves ...